Our first call is not to places – be they chapels or church buildings or cult gatherings. Or first call is not even to church leaders or pastors or preachers. Our first call is to Jesus, to love and obey Him and to spend time at his feet. It is the only thing that Jesus said is necessary to Martha. Going to church is not necessary. Having a church is not necessary. Having a pastor/leader is not necessary. Jesus is the only necessity. You can have Him anytime and anywhere and He will prove Himself enough for you.
You are worried and troubled about so many things…about finding a church and going to a church and finding a church leader and having a worship band play music to open the service and having a pulpit from which a highly educated preacher will preach to you, but none of this and none of religion is necessary, only I Am.